change.. a good thing?

i know that everybody changes over time..
from the time u could interpret ur memories all the way till now, while u're reading this..
i'm sure u would have changed a great deal...
from being whiny brats to more mature ppl...
from being innocent to the now more rebellious..
there are so many examples...
yet.. why is it that people can change over such a short period of time?
i mean.. if its over a long period, like lets say a year? decade? of not seeing the person..
then.. maybe it would be easier to accept that the other party has changed..
but a month?
isnt that too short of a time?
i mean..c'mon la..
cannot be right?

why am i writing this?
only 1 person knows.. (excluding me btw)
haii.. i've been thinking abt this for a long time and it frustrates me cos it doesnt make any sense...
the only thing im certain now is this..
if it continues.. then i'll definitely hate the person later on...
i dunno when or wad will be the trigger..
but its definitely getting there...

guess wad im trying to say is...
ppl out there reading.. 18 to be exact...
dun be a bitch. face life as it is and stop hiding and lying to urself.